Thursday, February 9, 2017

Getting the family on board a healthy lifestyle



Trying to get the family on board a healthy lifestyle can be hard. Especially when it’s more than just you and your husband. Especially when there are work and time commitments. In the end, it will only succeed if you and the rest of your family are on board, and if you receive the respect and support from your husband as well as your children.

I have to admit, that my husband and I have always been like-minded and have strived for a healthy lifestyle (most of the time) J But in the end, we have always agreed that we want to live a “healthy” but balanced lifestyle—so sort of like having our broccoli but getting to enjoy our ice cream as well.

Today, it is far more complicated. Because our children have different food preferences and I have a more restrictive “diet” now. Now that I don’t eat wheat and dairy on a daily basis. Amazingly, it has been fairly easy to incorporate meals that I can enjoy along with my family. And I am finding out that what I thought would be a total disaster: “what, no cheese lasagna?” “no breadcrumbs on the salad?” has actually been a step in the right direction for the entire family. A typical dinner at my house consists of chicken or beef and a side portion of rice or potatoes along with chopped fresh, rather than baked, vegetables (which the children prefer) along with a salad. So we have in essence increased our vegetable intake by cutting out on some of the bread. There are many pasta dishes though. I just make sure to fix pasta by itself and then the family can fix their own plate to their liking. I usually fix quinoa, sweet potatoes or brown rice for myself when I fix pasta.

One of the tastier meals is when we grill chicken or beef, chop some peppers, cucumbers and tomatoes and eat Greek gyros. I fix a yogurt dressing for a topping, but also make sure to buy hummus for myself. It is fresh, healthy and tasty—all the ingredients my family requires to make a meal a success!!

Another goal for 2017 is to cut-back on some of our sugar intake. We have traditionally allowed the children to eat dessert after every dinner. This in addition to sweetened yogurt for a midday snack and of course a piece of chocolate or baked goods that are usually more than readily available in Germany. One of the biggest culprits was buying into the fact that Nutella, a chocolate spread, served in the morning along with toast, would actually be a good thing for the kids. Not only did it increase their sugar intake, but also prepped them to have a very sweet tooth and increase their desire for sweets later on in the day. We are still having some sugar in the morning: typically toast with jelly (but only a small amount) along with eggs or oatmeal. At night however, we usually skip “dessert” which used to be ice cream, candy or some sort of baked good. Instead we have fruit along with plain yogurt or amazingly enough—go without dessert! The childrens’ taste buds are changing and they are not demanding as many sweets as before. Just two days ago, my oldest daughter, notorious for her sweet tooth, skipped eating her pastry and gave it to her dad instead. She said she wanted to eat something light and fresh, and chose and apple.

The important thing is to gradually introduce new eating patterns and foods. And once you make the commitment try to adhere to it. For example, if your rule is to only have dessert on weekends—stick to that. Another helpful tip is to try to get your children involved in the food decision process, either at the store or in the kitchen. I am starting to allow my 3 year-old daughter into the kitchen to help me fix smoothies, oatmeal, cookies and other easy dishes. She’s very eager to help and is always curious to try what she has helped to make.